There's a feeling I've struggled to name for most of my adult life.
It sits somewhere between gratitude and restlessness, between contentment and disconnect.
It's not dissatisfaction because I've always been deeply grateful for what I have, for my children, for the opportunities I've been given. And yet, alongside that gratitude, there's been this persistent sense of incongruence.
Of living...
At every fork in the road, we have a choice.
What's less obvious is this:
When you don't make a choice, you're still making a choice.
Delaying is choosing. Hesitating is deciding.
Putting it off until you feel ready is an answer.
And every single one of those moments, be it big or small, shapes the path that unfolds next.
I think we like to believe that only the major decisions matter. The jo...
I was having a conversation recently about Brené Brown's work on belonging.
She makes a powerful distinction that I want to share:
Fitting in and belonging are not the same thing.
In fact, they're opposites.
Fitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming who you need to be to gain acceptance.
Belonging is about showing up as you are and being accepted for that.
One requires you to cha...
Wildmusings

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